I just turned 75 this year, and honestly, I always imagined this stage of life would feel warmer—filled with family, laughter, and the kind of gentle chaos grandchildren bring. Instead, the “gift” I received left my stomach in knots.
A little background: I spent 45 years working as a nurse. Double shifts, overnight calls, holidays when everyone else was home with loved ones—I was always on duty. I saved carefully, bought my little house at 50, and slowly built a retirement fund. Nothing fancy, but enough to let me breathe.
My son, who is now 44, used to be kind, thoughtful even. But somewhere along the line, I stopped being “Mom” and became something else entirely—a walking wallet. His wife, Maya, is polite but keeps me at arm’s length, and the grandkids mostly remember me when there’s a card with money or a holiday gift involved.
Over the years, I helped them in every way I could. I paid for a chunk of their home renovation, loaned money that was never repaid, and even gifted them a family vacation when they said they “needed a break.” But when I had a bad fall last year and asked for a little help getting through the first week, my son’s response was, “You can afford to hire someone.”
This year for my birthday, I invited them for a simple dinner. Nothing fancy—just a home-cooked meal and a bit of company. Before they left, my son handed me an envelope and said, “Open it when you’re alone.” I smiled, thinking maybe it was a heartfelt card.
Later that night, I opened it. It wasn’t a card at all. It was a spreadsheet titled “Mom’s Property and Market Value.” Every possession I own—my house, jewelry, even my small stock portfolio—had notes about who should get what. Everything neatly itemized like I was a storage unit they were planning to empty.
I cried. Not because they wanted my things, but because it hit me—they don’t love me. They love what I can give.
Two weeks later, I invited them again. This time, I calmly read my new will. Everything I own will go to the elder care home I volunteer with. My son turned crimson, Maya froze, and the grandkids didn’t even look up from their phones.
I haven’t heard from them since.
And strangely… I feel lighter. But sometimes, late at night, I still wonder—did I go too far?
Note: This story is a work of fiction inspired by real events. Names, characters, and details have been altered. Any resemblance is coincidental. The author and publisher disclaim accuracy, liability, and responsibility for interpretations or reliance. All images are for illustration purposes only.